Content in Hong Kong

Written by Kyle about Hong Kong. Feelin' normal

I'm sitting here at the computer struggling to write anything about Hong Kong. There are some flashes of ideas that go through my brain, but nothing really compels me to put any more than a couple of sentences. (I believe this is what some people in the industry call "writer's block".) In theory, there could actually be a lot of fodder here for some in-depth writing. In fact, I have a bit of history in Hong Kong.

Nine years ago, back when I was in college and a very green traveler, I studied in Hong Kong for a semester. (Well, sometimes I'll call it SARSmester due to the outbreak of the rather malign SARS virus at the time.) In any case, it was the first time in my life that I was away from America for a significant period of time and following that, I was in Norway for a summer...and long story short, I caught the bug (travel bug, not SARS) and have been placating that peculiar itch that the travel bug gives you. So, going to Hong Kong was like going back to Ground Zero of my travel addiction; returning to the place where it all started; completing a full cirtcle; et cetera, et cetera. So, I should have some strong emotions there.

But, I didn't.

The strongest feelings that I had were of contentedness and complacency, which I'm sure are not mutually exclusive feelings. It didn't matter if I saw any of the "touristy" spots or ate the signature dish of the town. I wasn't particularly interested in popping in a museum or seeing some sort of cultural show. In fact, I didn't even look in any guide book at all, instead just using a map that we picked up at the airport.

So, what did we do for nearly a week in Hong Kong? Well, we hung out mostly. My friend, Mike, was generous enough to let us crash at his place (all 800 cubic ft of it), which we enjoyed immensely, especially the part where we could drink tap water and flush toilet paper down the toilet. Also, regular hot showers were pretty kick-ass.

We spent Christmas Eve eating fish tacos, eating cookie and ice cream, and playing "Kung Fu Panda" on the XBox Connect. (Super fun, by the way)

Bessie kicking at imaginary things

We walked around a lot with no particular direction. We did that a lot.

Who needs a map when there are signs?

We found a beach. On Christmas.

Bessie and Kyle at Big Wave Bay, Hong Kong

Us at "Big Wave Bay"

We had an awesome breakfast at a diner. Yes, a diner in Hong Kong. The pancakes were pretty bad-ass, though. We did have some Chinese food, although, we have no idea what it was.

Breakfast at a Cooked Food Market, Hong Kong

Any guesses as to what we ate?

We drank some expensive beer.

Imported and worth the cost

We saw the new "Sherlock Holmes" film. Also pretty bad-ass.

We rode some bikes.

We biked to all of those places.

And, generally, we just had a fun time wherever we went, ignoring all of the things that we "should" do.

My serious face

Some might say that we lost that spark that would cause us to get up every day and explore the city to it's full potential. We were like that at one time: a non-stop whirlwind of traveling, out to see everything that there is and stopping only for sleep and another bus ride. There was a time when we would leave a place only after we felt like we had squeezed every little last drop out of it.

We're not like that anymore.

I'm sure we missed a lot of "must-see" things and if you've been to Hong Kong, you're likely to have seen more than we did. And that fact alone used to bother me a lot. But that doesn't bother me any more. I was totally content catching up with an old friend and that pretending his couch was mine. In the end, I think I finally realized that it doesn't matter if I went somewhere or not. It doesn't matter if I did something or not. It only matters how I felt at the time. And the whole time I was in Hong Kong, I thoroughly enjoyed myself, so for me, that makes the whole trip worthwhile.

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January 18, 2012 Andi of My Beautiful Adventures: Sound like the most perfect trip to me! You just missed my bro, he came home from Xmas, he lives in HK!

January 20, 2012 Kyle: Sorry that we missed him! Maybe next time... :)

January 18, 2012 Sally: I like the way you roll, sir. Especially the part about the couch.

January 20, 2012 Kyle: Are you calling me "sir" now? It's about time! But seriously, you should only call me "sir" if you are wearing a top hat and monocle...which maybe you are doing? Also, it has to be said with a snooty British accent.

January 18, 2012 paul: is that the Gastrointestinal Pub?

January 18, 2012 mumsie: I love this post! Congratulations on experiencing contentment. It's something that some people never experience - feeling soooooo good about where you are in your life that you allow yourself to be TOTALLY in-the-moment without concern that There Must Be Something Else. :))

How perfect to have this happening where you feel "it all started." I think this may be called Perspective. (Something that comes from doing, growing and aging. LOL And you ARE 9 yrs older now! Heh!)

Really cool that the three of you HAD FUN -- YAY!! -- "in one of your old neighborhoods!"

January 20, 2012 Kyle: In some ways, I am still that college kid, but, yes, it's nice to know that I don't have to worry about the things I'm NOT doing anymore and concentrate on what is in front of me.

January 18, 2012 Sheila Newton: Can't believe you didn't find a million things to do in Hong Kong. When we were there, we visited loads of Taoist temples, with gorgeous gardens. We visited parks and aviaries. Hong Kong Island was fantastic with lots of fragrant herbs and spices on the market stalls. We visited Aberdeen (the old capital) and watched hundreds of eagles fly above us. We took a rive boat and waved at the fishermen and their happy 'boat dogs'. It was all brilliant.

January 20, 2012 Kyle: Oh, I'm sure we could have found a million things to do in Hong Kong, but we made a conscience decision not to do so. We decided just to do the things that we wanted to and if we happened to stumble onto something touristy, then that is all fine and well. For us, it is a departure from trying to do it all and instead we just do the things that make us happy and don't worry about the rest :)

January 19, 2012 Honeymoon Bed Breakfast Luray VA: Didn't you explore Disneyland Hong Kong? As well as there's also places where you can hike and walk and find out some of the most breathtaking natural scenery of Hong Kong.

January 20, 2012 Kyle: We did some hiking, but didn't make it to Disneyland. I agree, Hong Kong does have some create natural scenery, especially for a city of its size.

January 19, 2012 Cindy: Awesome post. It is great to be on vacation or visiting a country and truly just do what you feel like, without feeling compelled to be a tourist and explore. Often we find such greater treasures that way.

January 31, 2012 Erica: We are starting to travel the same way! Sometimes all I want to do is feel somewhat normal and relax. Seriously though, I've stopped feeling guilty.

January 31, 2012 Kyle: Good to know we're not the only ones AND we're both happy with it :)

February 07, 2012 Michael: Correction: The apartment size should read closer to 800 Cubic Feet, otherwise, my landlady will double my rent!

Come back any time for a bit of R&R with no need to explore!

February 07, 2012 Kyle: I corrected it. I wouldn't want anyone to think that you live in luxury or anything...

Content in Hong Kong

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